Sunday, February 28, 2010

Simple Menu Plan (Part 2) for the Week of 3/1


Last week I shared my plan to simplify our meals for Lent.  You can see the first week here.  These two weeks will repeat until Easter.

Here are the meals for the second week:


Dinner plans:

-Monday-
          This post includes a description of how I make a frugal version of 
          seafood risotto, without Arborio rice.

-Tuesday-
  •  Fajitas (picnic with Papa)
-Wednesday-
  • Calzones
-Thursday-
  • Venison burgers, fresh veggies
-Friday-
Saturday-

Friday, February 26, 2010

My Undoing

"Music is the companion of joy, balm for sorrow."

These words are a translation of the Latin text that Johannes Vermeer included in his painting, "The Music Lesson."  I have certainly found music to play those dual roles, and I've been reminding myself to sing more this week to comfort my weary soul.

After we had finished singing "Jesus Loves Me," my two-and-a-half year old barked out: 

"No, Bible tells me so, not you."  

Definitely cheeky in tone, his point was also instructive.  My assessments of how well I am doing should not affect my thoughts and motivation as much as they do.  Instead, the truth of what the Bible tells me should be my guide.

Though my husband and I both disdain country music as a rule, we recently discovered the soundtrack for the movie Crazy HeartThese particular songs won us over, and I have had them running through my head since the first listen.  And then came another song, streaming from the radio in the kitchen yesterday--"Undo," by Rush of Fools.  It was the perfect answer to "Somebody Else," the lyrics of which mirror my thoughts lately, but lack the hope of redemption that undergirds "Undo."

As I look for renewal and seek transformation, I've been confronted with my performance-based notions of self worth.  Basing my life instead on God's amazing grace would be far more fruitful.   When I fall short of the standards for success that I or others set, I should listen less to the voice that condemns, and more to the words of God.  He never offers reproof without hope.  

In the midst of all this inner turmoil, Rachel's bookshelf challenge this week forced me to take a long look at our shelves.  They are slovenly by anyone's account.  It's tempting just to resign myself to their condition and continue trying to ignore them, but maybe I won't.  I think they reflect something of the state of my heart as well.


The first bookcase is the best of the lot.  It goes downhill after that.  Also, anything you see that has remained orderly is my husband's doing.  

 
Hallway bookshelf

  
 Living room shelves

 
 Shelves downstairs
(I should hang those wedding portraits too, while I'm at it.)

Will I be able to tackle them all this weekend? I hope so.  Turning on some upbeat music should help me while I'm at it.  I would like to post the "after" pictures next week.  Yet whether I succeed or fail in this project, I'll strive to think on (and sing about) God's changeless love. 


So what songs have been a companion or balm for you this week?

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Putting Facebook to Good Use

 
Since I am fairly unlikely to call up a friend on the phone, it's great to have other quick options for efficient communication.   However, of my 200 plus friends who have joined Facebook, most seem to have hit the wall of Facebook-fatigue last year.  My updates have slowed as well, but I still want to put this social networking thing to good use.  I have drawn the line at the online games.  I do not play them, since I spend too much time on the internet already.  But the community spirit that Facebook games embody intrigues me.  However, instead of getting virtual help to build something on my farm, I like to use Facebook to interface with real life situations I am facing. 

Here are a few ways I've used Facebook to help myself or others in the real world.
  1. In my status update, I have made open requests to borrow items, like the cup here, which I requested to hold the blueberry punch recipe I created.  And I've been meaning to put out another request soon for a crochet hook--hopefully today!
  2. When I have needed to find childcare, I have tagged local friends in notes.  So far my efforts have met with success each time, even when I made a last-minute plea (which is not unusual for me).
  3. I have invited friends to join me in an activity.  Most recently, I welcomed others to join me in a daily singing experiment.  It was fascinating to see who responded, near and far (mostly far).

Perhaps these will inspire you to try your hand at using social networking to build true 3-D community.  Way back in 2008, I mentioned some tips I came across for Christians using Facebook, and the above examples are ways I've tried to put that advice into action.  Happy facebooking, everyone!

You can find this and many other links to helpful ideas at Works for Me Wednesday.

Monday, February 22, 2010

Simple Menu Plan for the Week of 2/22


This year for Lent I would like to simplify my meal plans by sticking with recipes my family knows and likes.  I created two weeks of plans that will repeat for the month before Easter.  Emily, at Under$1000PerMonth, uses a two-week plan year round, so I figured I could simplify things for a month and use the time saved for more significant pursuits.

Below is the plan for the first week; next week I will share the second week's meals.


Dinner plans:

-Monday-
  • Chicken pot pie
-Tuesday-
  •   Rice and sausage casserole or dine out (picnic with Papa)
-Wednesday-
  • Meatloaf and vegetables
-Thursday-
  • Turkey burger, fresh veggies
-Friday-
  • Shrimp stir fry, rice
Saturday-
  • Slow roasted venison, rice, vegetables

Friday, February 19, 2010

This Competitive, Reflective Season



I've been rather oblivious to what's been going on in Vancouver until very recently.  Yesterday I was finally able to catch some of the Olympic Games on the T.V. at the laundromat, between loading washers and tracking down my toddler son.  Our T.V. at home is not connected to cable or an antenna, so it was a special treat to sit and watch a few events as the clothes spun round.

Meanwhile, I have been contemplating the Lenten season.  Our church doesn't do anything liturgical besides communion, so I'm in the same boat with Megan, at Sorta Crunchy.  I've nearly decided what I will do to mark the season this year.   For Lent I would like to give up my endless quests for novel recipes and simplify our meals.  This should free me to focus on other priorities, like preparing my heart to celebrate the resurrection and spending focused time with my three fast-growing children.

And how about you?  Are you planning anything for the Lenten season?  Or does your congregation join in remembering Lent together in some way?  I love to learn about the different ways people express their faith.  Diversity is invigorating, don't you think?

Sunday, February 14, 2010

Menu Plan for the Week of 2/15


We're celebrating Valentine's Day and the Lunar New Year this Wednesday, a few days after the fact.   I am also trying to plan meals that I am confident my family will enjoy.  Too often, I have been choosing meals based on the variety and novelty that I would like, versus putting their preferences ahead of mine.

Lunches: ham sandwiches, stuffed avocados, lentil soup, mac-n-cheese, broccoli walnut sandwich ring

Dinner plans:

-Monday-
  • Slow-roasted venison, okra, cornbread
-Tuesday-
  • Pita fajitas (picnic with Papa)
-Wednesday-
  • Chinese dumplings, noodles, egg rolls, baby bok choy
-Thursday-
  • Turkey burgers, fresh veggies
-Friday-
Saturday-
  • Chicken pot pie

Friday, February 12, 2010

Gloom Chasers



Hello all! Are you looking forward to a celebratory weekend? It was not the greatest of weeks around here, between coughing kids and my unwise time use choices.  Nevertheless, several things lifted my spirits.

1. Flowers

My husband brought home a bouquet of tulips for me to enjoy this week.  They are my favorite flower.  Before we were married I used to buy single stems for myself as a pretty pick-me-up.  Ever done that?


2. Singing

Often I am so wrapped up in trying to catch up on all the things I've fallen behind on that I forget the joy that singing brings.  So I started singing as I worked in the kitchen yesterday and wondered why I'd forgotten how good it is to open my mouth in praise.


3. Sunshine and Fresh Air

The sun returned this week, and while it was not so conducive to afternoon naps, it was a welcome sight.  We managed to walk to pick up my daughter from school several days, and were the happier for it.

If you and/or the winter months seem to be dragging, perhaps trying one or more of these ideas might encourage you to lift up your head and feel hopeful again as well.

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Crafts of the Week: Easy Quilled Paper Hearts and Fabric Wrapped Vase

With Valentine's Day approaching, I have enjoyed making quilled paper scrap hearts. After I print my coupons, it feels good to have a designated use for the abundance of odd paper shapes that remain.  Last fall I employed segments of the leftover paper to make paper scrap pumpkins.   As you can see, leftover paper scraps are quite versatile.  The larger plain hearts pictured along with the quilled hearts were made for some Valentine's Day Games I conceived.

Fabric wrapped vases make use of our surfeit of empty tin cans waiting to be recycled.  The tin vases can hold pens and pencils, lollipops, dry stems, or anything else you want to arrange.  I like that they are frugal, functional, and fast to make.









Materials for Easy Quilled Paper Hearts:
  • Printer paper scraps
  • Scissors
  • Liquid glue
  • Colored felt, optional


Directions for quilled hearts:

1. Take a longer strip of paper (mine were 11 inches long by 1/4 inch wide) and fold in half. This will form the outer heart.

2. Curl each end with scissors by sliding the paper over the scissor edge at an angle, as you would curling ribbon. Also, cut several pairs of shorter strips of the same width.  Curl these shorter strips into fancy "S" shapes. Adjust curved ends to desired shape, insert an "S" shaped strip, and secure heart together with a dot of glue.  Hold and allow to dry for a couple of minutes.

3.    Arrange shorter curled strips inside the heart shape. Use dots of glue to secure curls in place.  You may have to adjust placement slightly to keep outer heart symmetrical.  Allow completed hearts to dry for 10 minutes or more.

4.  Hang your quilled heart or hearts on a knob, branch, chandelier, or other creative location.  If you like, glue the heart lightly to felt for additional color contrast.

Note: We tend to use printer paper that's a bit heavier than photocopy paper.  The heavier weight works well for curling with scissors and pencils (though card stock would be too stiff).  I do have to "play" with the paper curls to get them tighter in the center and gradually widen until they look right to me.  Like snowflakes, no two quilled creations are ever exactly the same. 

Materials for Fabric Wrapped Vase:

  • Empty tin can
  • Fabric piece (large enough to cover can plus an extra 1/2 inch on each side)
  • Needle and thread
  • Ribbon and buttons to match fabric
  • Craft glue or hot glue
  • Iron
  • Fabric pins


Directions for covering the tin can:

1.  Fold and press hems on 3 edges of the fabric rectangle.  Leave one short edge unfolded.  The rectangle should be exactly as wide as the height of the can.  The unpressed edge will be a little longer than the can's circumference, providing a way to secure the edges together.

2. If using ribbon to decorate, position and attach ribbon(s) by sewing or gluing it to the fabric.  Sew buttons, if desired, on the short pressed edge.

3. Wrap fabric around tin can. Lap the pressed short edge over the unfinished short edge.  Pin together. Glue or stitch pressed fabric edge in place.  Remove pins.

monogram

Go! Fight! Win! Seeking Laundry Allies

Is it just me, or do you notice more women than ever bemoaning their laundry mountain woes?  I think I am perhaps queen of the mountain...range.   My tendency to grossly neglect my laundry duties is the reason, I admit.  Truly, I don't mind doing it, once I get started.  But chipping away and following through on tasks is not my modus operandus.  I like quicker gratification.

So I broke down this month and went to the laundromat.  Why?  Because my concerned spouse was about to have our next date night there.  Panicked, I tried to beat him to it, and we are now minus 15 dollars in quarters.  But we have gained much clean laundry, which works for us!   Even my husband noticed it was possible to walk on the floor of the laundry room. Furthermore, in February, the month of ultimate romance, I could not bear the thought of paying to spend a rare evening with my husband doing work I have shirked.

Forcing myself to go the the laundromat also holds me accountable.  I will have to spend our hard-earned money there again if I don't meet the next catch-up deadline I set.  Deadlines are useful, as are clean clothes.  My husband would rather have clean clothes and lose a roll of quarters if he has to choose.  I would rather get my laundry act together and create a win-win scenario: keep the coins and get my laundry done at home in our beloved LG front-loading machine.  This tactic of a hard deadline could inspire me to be more faithful in pursuing the double win.
 


Are you trying to scale your own "Mount Washmore?"  Have you considered spending a relaxing afternoon (or two) at the laundromat?  You might be able to chalk up some victories of your own and leave behind loads of guilt.

Sunday, February 7, 2010

Menu Plan for the Week of 2/8


I am relieved to have a list of lunch options for this week, after being plagued by lunch dilemmas in  recent weeks.  Admittedly, I am a variety freak.  Here are the lunches I've planned:
And our dinner plans:

-Monday-
  • Turkey burgers
-Tuesday-
  • Pita pizzas for the kids, 
  • Lamb, eggplant with red pepper coulis (for my husband and I later)
-Wednesday-
-Thursday-
-Friday-
  • Broccoli walnut sandwich ring (recipe to come), soup (TBD)
-Saturday-
  • Roast venison, mixed vegetables, rice

Friday, February 5, 2010

“You can do it, Mom!”


Enthusiasm, wonder, and dental appointments--these are a few of the reasons I am thankful for the blessing of my children this week.

My two-and-a-half year-old son cheered me on this morning.  While riding on my back as we trudged hurriedly to my daughter’s school, I was thankful for his encouraging words that I “can do it!”

However, when I  first I opened the door this morning, I was caught by surprise by the thick blanket of snow covering the driveway.  Great.  We would have to walk in this.


Off went  my daughter’s sneakers and we lost several minutes struggling to push her feet into her purple boots.   We rushed to preschool late, and I returned to collect my other two children so I could take my other daughter to kindergarten.

My haste and annoyance on the first drop off expedition caused me to miss any beauty in the snow.  But my oldest daughter could not help but stop and notice, despite my proddings to hurry.

“Hey, it’s a woodpecker!”

I heard the tapping too, and quickly  scanned the tree to try and spot the bird.

“Look, there’s a cardinal!”

I did manage to sight the bright red plumage that my daughter was pointing out.

 “Those branches look like reindeer antlers.”

Yes, I agreed, but we still had to pick up the pace to have any hope of arriving before the bell rang.

How alike I was to the harried subway riders who missed the masterpieces being played by the violinist in their midst!  I went back later to snap some photos of the snowy path we’d traversed earlier in the day.  The snow was still beautiful, but some of the pristine exquisiteness had begun to fade.  My daughter was ready to stop, observe, and take in the moments that would never come again.   I urged her forward.   Who’s instructing who here?

Besides the lessons I am learning, I often find my children to be quite useful.  My daughter reminded me of her dental appointment last night. Thanks to her, we arrived at the office just in time.

As I work my way through the tasks of today, I pray that I will have a reverent heart for God and be better at appreciating all his wonders.   From frosted branches to three pieces of his handiwork he began weave within me three, five, and seven years ago, there is much beauty to celebrate.

Image by Tammi

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Craft of the Week: Colorful Cutout Paper Hearts

 

These quick cutout hearts were created like paper snowflakes.  I cut various papers into heart shapes and then folded, cut, and unfolded them.  My daughters and son enjoyed hanging them on the tree.  One of my daughters thought the hearts looked like colorful butterflies alighting on the branches.

Materials we used:

  • Fallen branches
  • Office paper scraps
  • Colored construction paper
  • Scissors
  • Vase
I'm excited to be sharing my craft idea this week with readers at Quirky Momma.  I hope you enjoy making this Valentine Tree as much as we did!

Monday, February 1, 2010

Making Valentine's Day Mean More Than Fluff

Last year I wrote how sentimental holidays like Valentine's Day inspire me to create things. However, there is also the temptation to get so caught up in the cutting and crafting that the historical meaning of the occasion is lost. Saint Valentine was a Christian martyr. If visions of candy and hearts and fluffy bows are all that come to mind on February 14, I believe my kids and I are missing the point.

With this tension in mind, I decided to tie in some deeper truths to 3 Valentine's Day games I developed recently:

1. Stacking Hearts Game - This activity links to Psalm 103:11.

2. Guard Your Heart Game - Obviously, Proverbs 4:23 is what comes into play here.

3. Ring Around the Chocolate - The truth that "love is patient" (I Corinthians 13:4) can be highlighted through this and many other games people like to play.

I have included a complete rundown of instructions in this article-- Simple DIY Valentine's Day Games for Ages 6 and Up. Another article that I thought captured more of the essence of celebrating love was Valentine's Day Family FunTuesday's Tip Jar has various project ideas for Valentine's Day as well as a collection of more general helpful tips.

I'm looking forward to doing many of these Valentine's activities with my children this month, with the goal of teaching deeper truths about the different kinds of love. By extending our discussions beyond superficial traditions, we can ponder the nobler aspects of love.




DIY Day @ ASPTL