Showing posts with label couple time. Show all posts
Showing posts with label couple time. Show all posts

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Weekend Adventures in Kansas City

Our family schlepped over to Kansas City for Labor Day weekend. My husband and I took Saturday to explore the city and celebrate our 10th anniversary.  Some "firsts" from our visit include:
  • Wandering the aisles of the farmers market in downtown KC.  We left laden with sweet corn, a watermelon, and peaches.  Plus we picked up a new-to-us book at a library book sale--Angel Child, Dragon Child--which tells an excellent story of cross-cultural adjustment.
  • For old time's sake, peeking at what was available at the nearby Asian supermarket.  Score!  They had frozen mangosteens from Thailand and fresh dragonfruit--two of our favorite tropical fruits.

  • My in-laws visiting Deanna Rose Children's Farmstead with the kids, which was apparently loads of fun for all.  Neither the grandparents nor my kids had ever been there before, but a return visit is something all of us anticipate.
  • Seeing Avatar at a theater in 3-D.  I'm guessing we were the only ones there who had never seen the film before.  We were in awe of the world we entered, and when we left the theater, it took a few minutes to find our bearings again.
What adventures have you had this month?


    Wednesday, February 10, 2010

    Go! Fight! Win! Seeking Laundry Allies

    Is it just me, or do you notice more women than ever bemoaning their laundry mountain woes?  I think I am perhaps queen of the mountain...range.   My tendency to grossly neglect my laundry duties is the reason, I admit.  Truly, I don't mind doing it, once I get started.  But chipping away and following through on tasks is not my modus operandus.  I like quicker gratification.

    So I broke down this month and went to the laundromat.  Why?  Because my concerned spouse was about to have our next date night there.  Panicked, I tried to beat him to it, and we are now minus 15 dollars in quarters.  But we have gained much clean laundry, which works for us!   Even my husband noticed it was possible to walk on the floor of the laundry room. Furthermore, in February, the month of ultimate romance, I could not bear the thought of paying to spend a rare evening with my husband doing work I have shirked.

    Forcing myself to go the the laundromat also holds me accountable.  I will have to spend our hard-earned money there again if I don't meet the next catch-up deadline I set.  Deadlines are useful, as are clean clothes.  My husband would rather have clean clothes and lose a roll of quarters if he has to choose.  I would rather get my laundry act together and create a win-win scenario: keep the coins and get my laundry done at home in our beloved LG front-loading machine.  This tactic of a hard deadline could inspire me to be more faithful in pursuing the double win.
     


    Are you trying to scale your own "Mount Washmore?"  Have you considered spending a relaxing afternoon (or two) at the laundromat?  You might be able to chalk up some victories of your own and leave behind loads of guilt.

    Sunday, January 10, 2010

    Menu Plan for the Week of 1/11


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    A practice my husband and I have decided to resume is a weekly candlelight dinner. Since he is graduate student and takes evening classes (only one semester left!), he often has to miss dinner with us. So a late dinner as a couple once a week is our way to reclaim some time together. I will try to take some snapshots of the spread, which will usually be a more elegantly arranged version of whatever is on the menu for Monday.

    Occasionally I have made a less expensive meal for the kids so the two of us can savor more gourmet fare and keep our grocery expenses reasonable. I am wondering: has anyone else has done these type of intimate dinners for two? I'd love to hear your ideas!


    Dinners This Week

    Monday:
    Tuesday:
    Wednesday:
    • Lamb Burgers, Vegetable Kebabs
    Thursday:
    • Chicken Pot Pie
    Friday:
    • Baked Ziti with Italian Turkey Sausage, Salad
    Saturday:
    • Venison Roast, Rice, Mixed Vegetables